Gratification The reason why men marry some women and not others Dating is complicated. Grief is complicated. Swirl those together and things can get pretty messy. As always, at the end of the article, you will find our wild and wonderful comment section, where we welcome your thoughts and experiences. So, you may want to start by checking out these posts about grief and then reading this post on how to support someone grieving. Dating a widow or widower FAQs 1. How can widows or widowers move confidently forward with new love, especially along with grieving children in tow?