Anything to do with female sexuality has been, and continues to be, taboo in the strongest sense of the word. This is what fuels my work as a sex therapist turned neuroscientist —and exactly what I explore in my Glamour column, Ask. Nanand in my new book, Why Good Sex Matters. The truth is we probably know just as much if not more about the composition of the fluids that flowed on the surface of Mars billions of years ago than we do about the nature of what is expelled by the human female during sex. How is that possible, given that references to female ejaculation date back to fourth-century Taoist texts? We can partially blame the stigma. But the result is that we remain so clueless about squirting that some medical professionals continue to insist that any fluid that leaks out of a woman during sex is urine—a result of incontinence. Time to set the record straight.
Akin to the elusive G-spot orgasm , I had to experience it firsthand before I could completely buy addicted to it. Squirting has happened to me. But, as is the case along with a lot of sexting, our conversations eventually evolved from R-rated to X-rated to XXX-rated, meaning it went as of chats to video fairly quickly. Accordingly one time, when we were chat dirty over FaceTime , I reached for my LeWand Bow —a stainless steel dildo perfect for G-spot encouragement and P-spot, too—and I became awfully aroused. While he was jerking bad, painting a perfectly dirty picture along with his words, and I was using my Bow, I realized my band was getting wet. Like, really bucketing. Could I have just squirted? Around was only one way to appreciate for sure, and that was en route for bring in expert, Dr. What is squirting?