How can my spouse and I learn to understand each other? All we need to do is look at how any group of guys or girls interact to begin to see some differences. Obviously, these are generalities, but here are just a few of the differences between men and women: When guys need encouragement, they typically go for the slap on the back from the guys on the court. When women need encouragement, they want hugs from their supportive friends. Men look to their friends to be just company. Women want emotional connection in friendships. So how are you supposed to know what your husband or wife wants and needs?
Threesomes hold something of a mythical appeal in our collective sexual imagination. Adding an extra body to a sexual encounter is hot as hell designed for any number of reasons, not slight of which is just the absolute visual and physical sensory overload so as to comes with it. Popular as the fantasy might be, research suggests the IRL experience is more of a mixed bag. In practice, threesomes are actually not that common. For monogamous couples, on the other hand, threesomes might be the single exception en route for the rule of exclusivity—and experimenting along with it might involve some unexpected affecting turbulence along the way. The chance was always on the table designed for us, but we pursued it add seriously during a period of non-monogamy.